Bradley Method

Let me tell you about my preparation for the birth of my first son.  It was a 1 day "Express" childbirth center.  The educator leading the course had us try on external electronic fetal monitors, showed us an internal fetal monitor, prepared us for a ceasarean section, and made me a little more worried than I already was.  We toured the birthing rooms and got a sack lunch.  It was a waste of time.

Now I am pregnant again and considering a different approach to childbirth education.  The first class that springs to mind is the Bradley Method.

I recently started reading Dr. Bradley's book "Husband-Coached Childbirth: The Bradley Method of Natural Childbirth" and I have been very impressed.  He backs his statements up with facts and gives you scientific evidence to support his practices.  It is not your average "hippy-dippy" view of natural childbirth.  He is modern, understanding, and compelling.

Some women are turned off by the full name of the class, Husband-Coached Childbirth: The Bradley Method of Natural Childbirth.  Why does it have to be a husband?  Can you have a friend, doula, partner, or parent be your coach?  The name says no, but in reality the answer is yes. 

Some women want more than just their husband or partner in the delivery room with them.  Do you 'need' another support person?  Ask yourself the following questions.  Can your husband solely handle all of your demands as a woman in labor? Will he be able to tell you whats normal and whats not? Will he have a dozen different tricks up his sleeve to help make you more comfortable? Will he know how to advocate for your wishes in the labor room?  A doula is trained and experienced just for childbirth.  Maybe you want her in there as extra support...  Or maybe you want her for your coach.  That is the beauty of childbirth, you make the decisions.  It is your body and you are bringing a new life into the world.  Do whatever makes you the most comfortable!